Abundance on the Patio
Petunia blooms spill
over edges that cannot
contain such splendor
Posted in mako and other shorts, tagged fullness, grace, nature, wonder on November 18, 2009| 9 Comments »
Abundance on the Patio
Petunia blooms spill
over edges that cannot
contain such splendor
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged age, breath, Love, memory, Relationship on November 16, 2009| 9 Comments »
I find myself searching
for the memory of an hour,
times once ours alone.
I linger
as I extend my hand
to engage the ignition of my car.
This car—
not the one then
that bore us everywhere
before the future moved us on.
I sit. My hands caress
the thickness of this wheel,
my mind imagines smoothness
through the turns all made back then—
music streams transported
the two of them—
becoming one breath
breathing in an afterglow.
Perhaps I long for forty-two.
Perhaps I’m blessed, me passing
memory tests like this.
Perhaps I’ll linger once again
in the slow-fading of
an afternoon.
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged Love, moonlight, ponds, waiting, walking on November 15, 2009| 2 Comments »
Walking after dinner
astounded by slow-rising
globe, swollen golden load.
Circling the pond amidst
reflection’s glimmer, I
follow the growing glow.
Moonlight pressing round
inflames my feet, moves
me home to one who waits.
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged Faith, Relationship, renewal, trees on November 13, 2009| 3 Comments »
About Renewal
(new one Years after the Stroke, days….)
hard to know
who had the most faith that day
we exchanged one dry Christmas tree
for ten bare sticks
traveled home to plant them
in the hard yard
then
watered, waited, wondered
at the hopelessness
of what we were about
yet today
birds sing from
ten generous red maples
lifting their limbs
into blue sky
of our smiles
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged high heels, impressions, maybe not, regrets on November 13, 2009| 3 Comments »
If only
she had considered
the future cost she’d pay
for walking four inches taller than she was
Had she thought to measure
and select only a perfect fit
instead of the flashy colors, the pointed toes
her old woman feet
might yet be free
to move easily across the lawn
or into town
But, if only being what it is,
today she sighs and sits
with only her pen
to move her in and out
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged memory, morning, Relationship on November 12, 2009| 13 Comments »
I awake as light spills in
hear water splash the basin
and imagine your attention
to your face, lathering and shaving
I curl around my pillows
draw yours closer, listen
as your wing-tip shoes brush
the plush beige rug
Morning sleepy head, you say
and bend to give a kiss
as I rush a smile into your wide embrace
press my palm into your
yellow tie
Ready for your morning meeting
yet
you’re not moving
toward the door…
Later
after you are gone
I know that should I have a million days
ten million nights, I will forever
know the touch yellow silk
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged discovery, family, home, sanctuary on November 12, 2009| 1 Comment »
Finding Home in the summer of 1948
Parked beneath the wash of shade
our parents saw a place
they might plant themselves
kneel and call home,
for four of us waiting
beneath the arch of ancient oak
sheltering this stretch of road
on Clairemont Avenue in
Decatur, Georgia
I was not yet six, my sister
Carol turning four next week
And we were in intense
Negotiations in the back
For who would hold the doll
Who only fold the clothes
We didn’t care what the pair
up front thought they sought
though they found it there
that Sunday morning, observing
church folk ambling in between
the high reach of white columns
some organ streaming out
filling up the air, refrains
chiming repeatedly the hour
calling all come in, come
home to some sweet sanctuary
Peace and safety for a life
For us
Might be found in this spot
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged comfort, moving, renovation, retirement, vision on November 11, 2009| 1 Comment »
Growing Pains
Water seeped in again—
mud-mess in the auditorium.
The temporary corridor
too cold, too hot,
too difficult for those
too old to climb the steep incline
on their return
after dinner.
Everyone impatient
for renovation’s finish
except for me.
I don’t care about the mud,
the heat, the climb,
the dust that never settles.
When this construction ends
there will be room for us
to move from this remote cottage
to an inside apartment
where we’ll walk the halls
to meals,
never needing to go outdoors.
In time
they’ll find
memory has erased
what was intolerable.
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged aging, growth, independance, Relationship, youth on November 11, 2009| 4 Comments »
At Eighteen
It was 1960
when I thought to stretch
my world, lengthen my tether
to the others in my home,
not yet ready for me to be gone,
not yet sure I meant my smile
about the three hundred miles
to that school south and so far.
It was 1960
and I was moving on
ready to sing my solitary songs
and think my own thoughts
unaware that it would be a long time
before I discovered I was
my mother and dad and
longer still before gratitude grew.
Posted in memoir free verse, tagged cello, friendship, narrative, relationships, stroke, support on November 9, 2009| 14 Comments »
Long-Playing
I’m holding a record album
entitled Legendary Performers,
a vinyl classic, some cello music spun
years before this memory appears.
I was passing forty-six that year,
entering the middle ages
without a friend,
enduring an unending struggle,
something to do with what love was
and what love wasn’t.
I had two energetic daughters,
a husband muted and paralyzed by stroke,
an impressive career with two thirteen-story towers,
53 employees and 458 residents.
I had colleagues, board members, regulatory overseers,
architects and contractors, maintenance
experts and fund development gurus.
But until the afternoon she came,
I had no confidant, no giddy laughter,
no one to muse about the day, sip coke
out there, somewhere beyond responsibility.
She walked into the dreary circle
we called a support group for survivors,
each one taking their usual turn to say
what was most difficult with
their chronically dependent spouse.
Why had I come again?
Where was the support?
I wasn’t listening to their stories,
so much the same, not as my own perhaps, but
the same as the month before,
and back and back…
How long had I been coming?
two years now – six – thirteen?
How many times had I vowed
never to return?
And in she came carrying her instrument.
All talking ceased as eyes focused on
this petite black-haired woman,
as she gently placing her huge case
in the far corner beside the table
with the drying donuts. Their eyes
followed her to the single empty seat,
their faces intent with a solitary question
which won out in some odd spoken unison,
“What — is — in — that?”
“Oh!” she said, looking back
to the gleaming curve of that cello case.
“That’s my husband.
I have to take him — you know —
where ever I go.”
A startled gasp leaked into the room,
as she dropped unconcerned into her chair
and I clamped my hand across my mouth
to contain the laughter loosened by some
unspoken secret between us now.
Eleven concerned faces stared at her.
Leaving one’s spouse inside a case
was serious and not condoned. Leaving
him in the parlor staring at TV
was however acceptable.
I stilled my face, yet uncertain,
thinking I was mistaken, when Rosa asked,
“How can he breathe?”
I laughed because I couldn’t hold it back,
because this woman named Renata
had demonstrated something I had
not dared to speak.
I laughed because she didn’t know
I intended to join her and her cello,
spend other afternoons giggling
taking irreverence seriously, listening
to this sound, like balloons rising, strings let go,
floating soft and free.
Renata had her turn to smile
as I chased her and her cello,
through the parking lot,
my high heels sticking
in the softened asphalt
of that Georgia summer day,
me calling, “Wait, wait,
we’ve got to talk.”
For years we talked and listened
let that cello smooth a ragged phase.
We are legendary performers,
long-playing roles of lovers
wives carrying what we won’t put down,
smiling in the space that laughter opens
in the heart of speaking yes
to what is impossible
holding all we yet possess.